At an impass?

I'm not sure if that is the appropriate title or not. But Michael and I are at a very crucially junction in our family's life apparently. Michael from the get go has been saying that he wants to go active. But after some quiet reflection on his part he is unsure if this is the best course for our family. We both want another baby but are unsure as well as how soon we should pursue this. It's not a matter of if, but when. I guess the Lord shows us what we need to know at a time and does not reville everything like we would like him too. So please anyone who reads this, please pray that the Lord will revile his next step for our family. What we should do. Thank you!